#datweyreygirlfriend#
Seems the latest gist in the country is no longer the ASUU strike, but "the child not bride movement" issue. So sad that our leaders are acting weird but that's by the way though. I bring to you an exciting and helpful issue, "how to escape the friend-zone".
Many people are victims of this and do not knw how to express their feelings to their crush who has already friend-zoned them, anyway, there's no need to be worried again, there are miracle steps I will reveal to you that will make you smile brightly, :D.
1. Remove your shoulder; while it's important to treat your crush with respect and care, do not be their door-mat, that is, you shouldn't give your shoulders to clean their tears after their break-up with their partner.
2. Flirting; don't be subtle, else he/she won't notice your advances. Next time, when talking to your crush, hold their gaze a little longer than you used to. Smile in a flirting manner and compliment them. Little advances like these get them thinking about you as a potential dating partner.
3. Get physical; introduce physical touch. Next time, when you guys are sitting at a table, playfully tap his/her foot with yours or better still, when you guys are talking, place your hand on theirs to emphasize a point, this will break-down a friend-zone barrier.
4. Dates; takem them out on dates. If he/she enjoys spending time with you, they will begin to suggest more of these dates. The venue of these dates should be in a dating atmosphere, it will bring the both of you closer to each other.
5. Friend power; use your trusted friends to remind them of how great of a dating partner you will be. Also, if you are not a friend to their friends, you have to change and get close to their friends.
6. Chivalry; there's nothing more attractive than being a gentleman. If you are hoping to escape the friend-zone, then you had better be chivalrous. Have dignity for yourself and treat her with all the respect that she hopes in partner. For instance, holding her hands securely while walking and the likes.
7. Envy; if your crush is in a relationship, you may be tempted to make the couple break-up, this will just decrease your chances of escaping the friend-zone but may also eradicate you from your crush's life. Just show them that even if they are in a relationship, they are still important to you.
8. Absence; be scarce for sometime, they say absence makes the heart grow fonder, use this and you'll know how far you have gone in escaping the friend-zone.
9. Look good; always look good in your appearance and make sure your crush notices and admires you, if possible, compliments you too.
10. Don't stalk; in as much as you should be around your crush, don't stalk. Nobody like stalkers, as a matter of fact, you could be taken for granted if you stalk. Play it cool and don't act too desperate.
11. Just say it; your crush may not even have the slightest idea that you have romantic feelings towards him/her, you could just say it, that is, express your feelings towards them, though, it could put a end to your friendship but you still need to take the risk.
12. When all else fails; you could have tried all these steps listed above and your crush does not still like you the way you like them, the best thing to do is to let it go. At this point, you have to move forward and forget them.
I know you have gained a lot. Make sure you use this "miracle steps" wisely and don't forget to thank me later. *wink* . Do not forget, I am DATWEYREYGIRLFRIEND your mom warned you about. :*
2 comments:
I think am gonna try all dis on my crush. Thanks Vivi.
Very revealing.
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